well said

jess makes a nice point about what draws people in. and i've thought about this concept a great deal over the last few months as well. this place has always been relatively anon. (although there are a sneaky too few of you out there who know more than this page could ever tell or should. and i’ve made the mistake of a stray photo or two.) but the point about it all -- i always seem to get stuck on the word genuine. because the whole concept makes you have to reconsider what you thought you knew about attractedness and what really matters--what actually moves you or gets into those places you never knew needed attention when things like fingers and pretty eyelashes can't get in the way.